The Tree of Plenty: Growing What Matters
Why do we expect linear answers from money and markets when nothing in nature grows in a straight line?
Tree’s branch, bend, shed, rest, and regenerate. Their growth is shaped by changing seasons, unseen roots, and the life surrounding them. Our relationship with money is much the same.
Through the image of the Tree of Plenty Debbie’s workshops invite participants to see wealth not as something static to accumulate, but as living energy: something we can root in our values, grow with intention, and allow to flow toward the people, places, and possibilities that matter most.
You Make Money—Make It Matter
Changing our financial language can change our behaviour. Through stories of people who have used their wealth to profoundly affect those they love and the communities that have supported them, Debbie will explore how generosity can strengthen our sense of purpose, connection, and well-being.
Like a mother tree, we can be deeply rooted in our own worth while using what we have grown to nourish the world around us. Money is not meant to stagnate. It is energy—and energy is meant to move.
Participants will create their own Joy Bubbles, identifying five places where they want to direct their money and energy to grow what matters and help create a better world—right here, right now.
David de la Paz (resident teacher) will deepen the experience through poetry and movement, exploring how changing the way we move can shift the way we think. When we release resistance and allow our bodies, energy, and money to flow, we create space for love, possibility, and meaningful change.
The Joy of Subtraction: Pruning to Make Space for Possibility
We live in a world conditioned for addition: more possessions, more commitments, more goals, and more choices. We add almost automatically, yet rarely pause to consider what we could subtract.
In nature, growth does not come only from adding. Trees release their leaves, shed what no longer serves them, and are sometimes pruned so that new growth can emerge. Subtraction is not deprivation; it is the intentional creation of space.
Letting go of something that matters less can free our time, energy, and money for the people, places, and experiences we value most. It allows us to stop growing simply for the sake of more and begin growing in the direction of what matters.
Through reflection and shared conversation, participants will identify something they have subtracted—or are ready to release—and explore the possibility that choice could open in their lives. What might grow if we gave it more light, time, and room?
Mudita: A Joy That Multiplies When Money Flows
Mudita is a Sanskrit word describing the ability to feel another person’s joy deeply and intensely. While we are often comfortable sharing in someone else’s pain, another person’s happiness or success can sometimes awaken comparison, jealousy, or even guilt—especially when we have access to resources, opportunities, or comforts that others may not.
Mudita invites us to move beyond comparison and experience another person’s joy as though it were our own. In a thriving forest, one tree’s growth does not diminish another’s. Each tree contributes to something larger, creating an environment where more life can flourish.
This workshop will explore the connection between self-worth, personal values, and money. When we recognize our own value and accept that we are worthy of what has come into our lives, we can hold it with gratitude rather than guilt. We can then use it generously and intentionally to create joy for ourselves and others.
Participants will reflect on what they value most in themselves and how those qualities influence what they value, purchase, and share. Something that once felt important—such as buying a new dress for an event—may no longer create the same joy. Borrowing one from a friend might offer greater connection while freeing money for something more meaningful.
Inspired by the idea of “dying with zero,” we will consider how our money and resources can be used during our lives rather than simply preserved for an uncertain future. The goal is not reckless spending, but learning to sprinkle joy into the present through meaningful experiences, thoughtful generosity, and shared moments.
Like fruit on a tree, wealth becomes most meaningful when it is allowed to nourish life.
Sharing Circle: What You Value in You Is What You Value in Life
Gathered around the labyrinth in Emily’s Forest, participants will form a circle and take one another’s hands. One by one, each person will be invited to share something they value within themselves—and consider how that quality shapes what they value in life and where they choose to direct their time, energy, and money.
Together, participants will then walk the labyrinth hand in hand: a physical expression of connection, courage, and trust. The winding path reminds us that neither life nor money moves in a straight line. We may not always see where the path is leading, but we do not have to walk it alone.
The experience will be guided by Emily’s words from Where I Belong:
“Let’s take each other’s hands and find the bravery to lose sight of the shore, so we can cross the ocean.”
This sharing circle will bring the workshops’ themes together: knowing our own value, trusting the unfolding path, and finding the courage to grow, release, share, and move forward in connection with one another.
Debbie Styles, CFP, founded dts lifeStyles, where she is giving life to a new financial language—rooted in joy, pregnant with possibility, and overflowing with purpose.
She invites people to think beyond the conditioning mind, shifting language:
Net Worth Joy Reserve
Retirement Jubilation
Retirement Income Allowance
Debbie questions why we expect linear answers from money and markets when nothing in nature is linear. Our lives unfold in seasons; our needs change; and the things we value grow, branch, and sometimes fall away. Through dts lifeStyles, Debbie helps people become the Tree of Plenty in their own lives: deeply rooted in their worth, intentional about what they grow, and generous with the shade, nourishment, and possibility they can offer others. She has witnessed how shifting our language can change our behaviour for the better—helping people move from Worrier to Warrior and develop a more confident, intentional, and joyful relationship with the flow of their money.